婚禮策劃中常見的溝通問題(一)

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昨天晚上見了一位準新娘,一如既往,我們的Wedding Planner像朋友般的和她聊天,了解她對婚禮的期望和要求,並在聊天過程中了解她婚禮籌備的安排及進度,和在籌備婚禮的過程中所遇到的難題。

聊著聊著,這位準新娘開始雙眼通紅,繼而忍不住流下眼淚,哭著說:”搞婚禮真的很累,我很迷惘,明明是他提出要結婚,到真的要動手籌備婚禮時,卻好像只有我一個在做,還一直埋怨我太心急!"她接過我遞上tissue擦擦眼淚繼續說,”每次要和他商量什麽,他又會顯得很不耐煩,好似好嫌我煩他似的,我甚至懷疑到底我要不要結婚了!"

我們安慰她,同時也告訴她,事實上我們策劃過這麼多的婚禮,這種想法是很多準新娘在開始著手準備婚禮時都會有,有的新人會因此嘈架,有的甚至會影嚮雙方家族的關係,比如:婚宴場地的選擇,雙方各有各的要求,比如四大長老會比較注重菜式是否體面,味道是否可口,地點是否方便,而年輕的新人們則會注重婚禮場地的環境如何,服務是否到位,配套是否齊全,就事而論,根本就沒有對錯,結婚雙方各自都想被對方諒解,加上溝通上的誤會,就造成很多不滿和埋怨。

說到婚宴場地,準新娘很感謝的說:"之前讓他快把場地定了,他還說不急,還好你們提醒我我的日子是大旺日,我們要的酒席數也是比較普遍的,催他趕快,他才願意去訂,不過最想要的那家酒店已訂不到了,還是很感謝你們幫忙,不然都不知道訂不訂得到場地了…"

事實上,在J’s Wedding Planner的專業婚禮統籌師,不單止在婚禮流程、中西儀式上幫忙策劃統籌,也不止是幫客人找合適的婚禮供應商等等婚禮統籌專業方面的事項。我們在婚禮前期的籌備工作中,更會花大量的時間和客人溝通,幫忙在新人及雙方家長之間作協調,讓新人們透過我們的貼心專業的服務,可以更省時、省錢、省心的完成他們的夢想婚禮!

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